Quite often in the past, I used to have a challenge to stay positive around people that are conditioned to be so negative all of the time. This can be quite challenging to maintaining your own positive vibes, dreams and aspirations.

Thankfully, after a few years of practice, I managed to create a pychological armor, so to speak, whilst still in rapport (though not negative rapport), and even end up turning them positive at times…

So I’d like to give you two tips that I have combined and work, using the Law of Attraction, that I use to remain positive, even when there are negative people around me…

Tip #1 – Focus on the Positive Aspects
The Law of Attraction has one job and that job is to match like with like. Here’s the truth of the matter… you would not be able to have access to that negative person unless you’re practicing something that is holding you in a place that you dislike.

What I mean by this is that you’ve been practicing thinking about their negative aspects and parts of their personality that you dislike. Questions like “Why can’t they be more positive?” and “They’re always so negative around me, what can I do?” is re-affirming the vibration of something you dislike. Remember, the Law of Attraction doesn’t care what you want, its job is only to match like with like. The more you complain, the more you worry and the more attention you give to the aspects of their personality that you dislike then the more you will see it.

The way to move around this is to begin focusing on the Positive Aspects of that person. What are their personality traits that you DO like? Are they funny? Do they have a soft side to them? Maybe they are really clever and you love that side to them? Whatever it is – begin focusing on those aspects of their personality and NOT the negativity that they have once shared with you.

Grab a sheet of paper right now and make a list of everything you like about them. The more you practice focusing on their positive aspects then the less you will see of their negative aspects. The Law of Attraction will not allow you to be in the same room together if you’ve practiced holding your attention on the positive aspects of that person and they are in a negative vibration. The pair of you would be magnetically repelled from one another because you are no longer in vibrational harmony with each another.

Tip #2 – Find a Thought That Feels Better
When someone with a negative attitude shoots you down, more often than not the first thing to happen is for you to respond with some form of defense. The next thing that will happen is that you will begin mental chattering about the situation. “He shouldn’t have said that to ME!” … “How dare she?” … “I wish they’d just…”. It is in this moment when your vibration is being negatively affected.

No one can actually affect your vibration except for you. In this very moment when you’re involved in mental chatter your allowing the negative comments to affect you and thus you begin talking about it. Just a little bit of this and you will begin to feel pretty miserable. The next time this situation arises and you begin the mental chatter, stop where you are and begin talking to yourself out of it.

To talk yourself out of the negativity isn’t a hard thing to do, but it just requires a little bit of time and effort. The way to do it is to find a thought that feels better than the one you currently have in your mind.

Begin by asking yourself what your current focal point is. What was the last thought you had? How do you feel right now?

Let’s use an example…

“I feel miserable because he said I was wasting my time”

Now from this starting point you must find a thought that feels just a little bit better. We’re not looking for a thought like “Everything is wonderful and I love life”, you’re looking for a thought that is real and accessible to your current situation. Maybe it would be…

“I don’t think I’m wasting my time and that is what counts”

Carry on with this game. From your new starting point of “I don’t think I’m wasting my time” try and find a thought that feels a little bit better.

“But he always says things like this to me!”

The above is a thought that may come to you. But it doesn’t actually feel better than where we just were. So in the event that this happens (and it will) you must try again and poke around in your mind for something that feels better. Before long you’ll have a mental dialog similar to…

“I feel miserable because he said I was wasting my time” STARTING POINT
“I don’t think I’m wasting my time and that is what counts” BETTER
“But he always says things like this to me!” WORSE
“I actually enjoy spending my time on self-development” BETTER
“It makes me happy and I feel like I actually know this stuff is true” BETTER
“He can have his opinion and I can have mine” BETTER
“I’m okay with his comment, that’s just a reflection of where he is at” BETTER

Your internal dialog may be much longer than this in reality, but this is just an example of how you can very quickly and easily move out of a negative moment and into a positive one.

So there you have it, two ways to remain positive! Remember the key is to take action or nothing will change for you. Give yourself some quality time and begin to move away from those negative vibrations that you’ve been allowing to keep you down.

Wishing you the best you deserve!

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Nicolas Baron

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This is because success means something different to each and all of us, but on average they come into a few select categories; love, money, happiness and health.

Some success ideas involve individual success, while others involves a group, a country or the world as a whole. If we begin by looking at the dictionary definition of success we see that it defines success as:

1. The achievement of something desired, planned or attempted: attributed their success in business to hard work.

2. The gaining of fame or prosperity: an artist spoiled by success.

3. The extent of such gain.

4. One that is successful: The plan was a success.

5. Obsolete: A result or an outcome

Source from the American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition copyright ©2000 by Houghton Mifflin Company. Updated in 2009. Published by Houghton Mifflin Company All rights reserved.

So taking from this as the point to start from we can see that success is gained by achieving a desired outcome, and to do this we must initially come up with a clearly defined roadmap and then take the steps required to reach the ‘destination’ set. So no matter what main category your ideal of success may lie in, whether it is love, wealth, health or happiness, the recipe to achieving your goal depends on how well you plan and believe in that plan and yourself.

If we take for example someone who is about to take a test that they want to pass, either physical like a driving test or knowledgeable like an exam you need to plan how you are going to achieve the best results and become a success. For either of these things sitting down and drawing up a plan of steps, aspects to study and areas that need practice or more information, is imperative.

When you are happy with the schedule which includes a timeline to fit around other aspects of your life, hang it up where you can see it constantly. This will allow you consciously and sub-consciously be motivated at all times. Many people through no fault of their own are not motivated enough to succeed and until they take charge of themselves and find a driving source such as a desire they will not succeed. It is all too easy to think of failure as an option or a definite outcome.

This sends a message to the brain “why bother then? You are only going to fail!” this in turn will then lead to you failing anyway as you have doused the flames of desire before they even happen. This is down to low self esteem brought on by a difficult and troubled past which has leaked into your present and will affect your future. Finding the fire and helping it to burn will improve self worth, faith in your desire and allow you to actually succeed.

Once you succeed at one thing you will find that you are able to stack up success more easily next time and the time after that. Having just that one visual aide works wonders…you should try it sometimes, and you might too realize the power it will equip you with on your way to your own success.

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Blessings,

In the middle of a session the other day I had a powerful realization. I was asked to think of a relationship I had with something in the last week, that in my mind was the ideal relationship, and to think of what it was about that relationship that made it ideal.

A number of people from the blog group thought of their cars, tool sheds, families, workmates, old friends, even relationships with objects such as their mobile phone, speedboat, hand bag, or favorite pair of shoes. To each of these people, these things felt comfortable, and simple. The relationships they had with these people or objects was ‘rewarding’ and easy to maintain.

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When my turn came to identify my ideal relationship, I thought of our cat Shalom who has very simple needs, and it is the ultimate ego-boost for me when I am home and I am greeted in such an enthusiastic fashion just for walking down the stairs, or displaying his affection by popping on my lap as I seat at my desk. I don’t know of any others that greet me so enthusiastically day after day. No matter how cold the night was (cat free house at night) or no matter how busy my day has been, when I didn’t get much time to play with him.

I call this unconditional love. Even without having to leave the house, Shalom always comes to us to get and give love from us, unconditionnaly.

So what is unconditional love?

Unconditional love is the type of love that comes without conditions. It is the type of love that you have for your partner when the romantic, hollywood-style love is gone. Once the romantic love is gone you make the transition to “real” love. Real love is love you have for your partner despite the knowledge that they are not perfect. You know your partner has faults. You know your partner is not perfect. You know your partner makes mistakes sometimes, but that’s okay. You still love them. This is unconditional love.

The same thing applies to you however in looking at your partner’s faults. You acknowledge that you are the same. You have faults. You are not perfect. You know you make mistakes sometimes, but that’s okay. That’s called self-acceptance, and you expect unconditional love to overcome the faults and imperfections that people have.

So what do you get from this then? Should we all go out and get cats to teach us something about unconditional love? Maybe there is a lesson to be learnt here. We all clutter our lives with trials and tribulations, and there is the temptation to let our issues rule our lives.

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Perhaps your relationship is almost hitting rock bottom, and you’re debating if you should call it quits or muster the strength to fix it. Frankly, it could be a difficult decision when it has come down to thinking about quitting a relationship. If you’re faced with this kind of situation, you should definitely consider things before making your final decision.

What is the bone of contention in the relationship? Now, try and see if you can provide answers to the following questions. Your sincere answers to them will provide clues on what your final decision should be:

1. Does your partner flare up at the slightest things and do most discussions between you end up in squabbles?

2. Does the thought of your partner make your heart sick and weary? In essence, do you have the feeling of a looming fight at the thought of your partner’s homecoming or visit rather than anticipating it with joy?

3. Do you wish you never entered into the relationship in the first place and wished you were with someone rather than your partner?

4. Is there a dent in the respect you have for your partner? Do you still hold him/her in high esteem or has your love for each other completely died out?

5. Has there been any case of physical abuse and if so, how frequently?

6. Do you suspect your partner is cheating on you? Have you attempted a peaceful discussion about this issue of infidelity and it ended up in a fight?

7. Is there a serious communication gap between you? What steps have you taken to bridge this gap?

8. How is your sexual relationship with your partner? Is it still fun or have things gone so sour that you no longer enjoy sex, but see it as a mere ritual?

If your answers to most of the questions above are yes, you need to think deeply, weigh the circumstances appropriately and determine if you can still cope with the relationship or if you want to quit in order of peace and freedom.

However, if you still have hope somewhere in your heart that the relationship can work well again, don’t hesitate to seek assistance. One of the steps you should take is to seek proper counsel and guidance from a relationship expert.

But before you seek counsel, see if you can talk things over with your partner and devise new and better ways to present your issues, no matter how furious you are. Remember that talking has always been the best way to settle and sort out issues.

I wish you all the very best you deserve, continue to Live with Passion and Be in Love Again!

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Blessings,

Success doesn’t come to you… you go to it. – Marva Collins

Setting an intention is something we all have done in the past and naturally have the ability to do. However, many of us have not learned how to harness the awesome power behind setting an
intention yet.

If you look at the typical behavior of your mind, you’ll see it is constantly creating intentions. Some are weak while others are more solid and trustworthy. It’s easy to understand why your wimpy intentions don’t always manifest results, yet why wouldn’t all of your strong intentions? What is the secret to making your solid intentions manifest results faster and easier?

The answer lies in the length of time you can actually hold on to the FEELING of your desired outcome. Here is a great manifesting secret to explore:

• The number of seconds you can hold on to a specific desired outcome with a feeling of genuine excitement and joy is indirectly proportional to the amount of time it takes to manifest in your world.

This means that imagining your desired outcome has happened for 60 seconds will manifest that outcome twice as fast for you as if you held it for 30 seconds. So how long can you hold on to ONE thought? Your ability to hold an intention for a longer period of time depends on how much you can quiet your mind.

This quietness is based on several things, but mainly it is created from your personal connection with the Universal Source.

The secret to increasing this connection is rooted in your ability to trust the Universe, let go of attachment to specific outcomes, and relax while enjoying the magical manifesting process!

If you do nothing else this year…evolve! – Lily Tomlin

As you learn how to consistently trust in the Universe and yourself, you will also have more of a KNOWING and FEELING that your desired outcome is already on its way. The Universe will give you signs along the path to guide you through apparent problems, personal issues and distractions that may stop you.

It is good to know that these “distractions” are a natural part of the manifesting process. Without them, you wouldn’t get the inspiration, motivation, or spark of creativity to come up with any revolutionary new ideas about how to evolve as a spiritual being in this world.

These problems and distractions help you to WAKE UP and make your life more alive and juicy! They create a greater awareness inside of you, and actually raise your consciousness. When the moment comes that you feel free from this distracting problem, you experience a great alignment with the Universe again, and can FEEL
how intimately and divinely connected you are with everything.

If we don’t change, we don’t grow. If we don’t grow, we are not really living. Growth demands a temporary surrender of security. – Gail Sheehy

Most people just wish their lives would change. They send out wishy-washy energy with their words, thoughts and feelings, and thus get weak results in return. Often people will unconsciously choose to have weak intentions because it’s a great excuse for not succeeding, and is easier than continuing to work harder to reach
their goal.

On the other hand, sometimes the habit of working too hard can be a hindrance, especially if we forget to make time to practice receiving the FEELINGS we are really desiring. So set some time aside tomorrow morning to relax into those feelings you most desire. Whether it is pure joy, abundance, or being loved, admired or
appreciated, make time to imagine whatever will give you those feelings inside.

Manifesting happens easily and effortlessly when you open yourself to your feelings, are clear about what you want, and can trust in your personal connection with the Universe. When you live your life from this space everyday, you don’t get upset if your desires don’t manifest at the expected time. Instead, you find yourself committed to being more passionate about FEELING what you really want to xperience inside.

With practice, you will see the Universe magically responds to every intention you put out. In fact, once you start on this manifesting path, it only becomes easier and more fun to create anything you desire.

There are basically two movements of consciousness: love
and fear. Love is allowing what is, and fear is resisting it. – Nirmala

May the blessings continue each and every day.

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Wishing you the best you deserve,

All of the great achievers throughout history have one thing in common. They have all been dreamers or desirers. If anyone is to achieve their goals in life then the first thing they need to do is establish what their desires are. That’s what makes people who are highly successful different from the rest – they know exactly what they want in life.

Simply wishing for success is insufficient. If anyone is to make any steps towards their definite objectives then they need to have a determined attitude, bordering on obsession, to fulfill that desire. It does not matter what your desire is. It may be a desire to excel in business, it could be a desire to learn a new skill, or it could involve a desire to change aspects of your personal life.

Whatever desire a person has, it will only be fulfilled if some of the following actions are taken. Firstly a person must realize what it is they need to make them content with their lives and give themselves step by step aims. Then they need to consider how much work they need to put in if they are ever to begin achieving those aims. Next they should set a deadline for reaching their final goal and then create a plan with a timeline highlighting how and when they will go about their tasks. This knowledge must be updated and read out regularly to keep a person on track to satisfying their desire.

All who achieve great things adopt a similar philosophy when setting themselves goals. The best writers, artists, sportsmen, inventors, musicians and scientists, along with many other pioneers of modern professions, all follow the process of putting their thoughts into action successfully when backed by a burning desire. Everyone, no matter what their chosen path in life may be, will start in the same situation with nothing but their thoughts and desires to spur them on.

Many people lack self confidence and are unwilling to set their aims higher through fear of failing. This sometimes develops due to people close to them discouraging them because they feel they are unrealistic with their goals and life choices. It may be that friends and family do not approve and so use ridicule to prevent their loved one from making what they feel is a mistake.

However, these people need to realize that we live in a world that continually throws us new and unique opportunities. The world only became modernized with the efforts of the creative and productive generations before us. Without the burning desire that these people had we might never have discovered the power to travel abroad by plane, communicate with the other side of the world by phone, order something from overseas by the net. With the development of technology and the industrialization of the world, we now have more job opportunity and diversity than we have ever had.

The time for everyone to realize their dreams is now. We must continue to follow the same methods of pioneers before us by taking the courage to act upon our thoughts with conviction and fulfill our burning desires. It is important that all negative influences are avoided. There is no excuse for
procrastination, and laziness. It is easy for people to say they want to achieve but in reality they will only start to realize their goals once they take those first steps in which they make a plan outlining the route to success.

Everyone has to start somewhere and not everything will go to plan. What is fundamental to success is that a person is not discouraged by initial failure. Most people who have claimed to have ‘made it’ in life will also be the first to admit that they had failures along the way. With every failure comes the chance to learn something new for another opportunity.

All achievements no matter how significant they are to others begin with a burning desire to get the result intended. In the human mind there is a power that is hard to explain. It is the ability to focus positive thoughts on achieving the thing that is wanted most. Success is sometimes a thing that at first seems impossible. When a burning desire in a person is so strong the word impossible loses significance.

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Antony Robbins says its the greatest success book of all time.

Entrepreneurs from Donald Trump to Bill Gates often refer to its awesome power of changing lives. Thirty million people across the globe have read this underground classic and experienced huge changes to their lives overnight.

And now I want to hand you this book without you paying a penny. It’s that important that you get it and read it, more importantly in those challenging times.

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The writer Napoleon Hill teaches you a step by step system for using your mind to attract massive wealth not just in the financial sense, but in the sense of your ways of thinking too. It is virtually impossible to experience success without specific though patterns, and Think & Grow Rich covers them all.

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Continue to Attract your Dreams and Live them with Passion!

Nicolas

Are you the type of person that makes decisions quickly or do you find it difficult to make your mind up?

When it comes to getting a job done and meeting a deadline your success can depend on the ability to be decisive. Many people fail to meet deadlines because of indecision. Not only do they let people affect their ability to make prompt and definite decisions but they hesitate due to factors  involving their own decisiveness.

Procrastination is a weakness that many of us may face on a daily basis. The ability to be decisive when it comes to avoiding distractions is important if you are to succeed in reaching your potential. Too many people make excuses for not chasing their goals early on in life continuously putting there dreams to one side and saying they will come back to them when “the time is right”. However, you only have a chance of succeeding in reaching those aims if you start acting immediately.

The biggest achievers of this world have shown that their success comes from quick decisive action and the ability to take stock of situations when things do not go to plan and to change decisions when necessary. Henry Ford was an example of someone who used his decision making ability to full effect. Some might say he was so determined when he made a decision that he was stubborn. His model T car was made despite the advice of many of his staff who said it would be the ugliest car around. Although this turned out to be partly correct and the car was not as successful as other models, Ford still stuck to his guns and made a fortune from the model. Now, regardless of what would have happened if he had scrapped it, Ford showed that by being strong minded and decisive he was able to make something succeed that most people doubted.

 To become more decisive you need to be able to ignore the opinions of others. If you want to make sacrifices and chase your dream doing something that satisfies your inner desires, you need to listen to your self and no one else. Friends and family may try to discourage you from your goals as they may think they know what is best for you. However, your burning desire to succeed at something should be all the encouragement you need to take those first steps towards achieving immediate goals.

One major problem with the education system is that it does not teach the youth about the working world enough. Too many students work their hearts out trying to get the best grades they can only to find that they have no idea what to do with themselves after graduating. Schools, colleges and universities do not encourage people to make decisions before they finish studying and so the habit of indecision stays with people as they go into work. It may be necessary to take any job straight away after leaving your studies behind you whilst you think about what you want to do with your future. However, many will find that they are stuck in that same job a year or more later and are unable to climb the career ladder.

You need to find the courage to make a definite decision about your future. You should sit down and analyse yourself, your strengths and weaknesses, what you think you are capable of and what you want to achieve in life. Then you must do your own research and not be held back by others or hold yourself back by procrastinating.

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